for those of u who noe chinese,(all claim to noe) xing fu simply means fortunte or more accurately, life of bliss. i for 1 am a XIng fu person. why one may ask. especially after evidently the setbacks i faced. the humiliation scrotched onto my very vunerable ego. it does nt make sense. BUt who eva say it did?
all pple encounter setbacks be failing ur exams which happen too occasionally for sum, probs wif friends,loved ones, even monetary issues. its is usually through this we experience how fortunate we are when we prevail through the chaos.
to put it simply, it does nt matter how much a person has endured or needs to face. its how one copes. if a person hurts u, so be it. easier said than done one says. damages done and all. but if he was de person u imagined him to be, tings wouldnt have turned out the way it did. the pt? its nt worth it feelin upset at sumone who isnt there. or more appropriately sum1 who doesnt deserve to be there for u.
and on the other hand. one need not be ashamed tat he does wad he does- hurts others. its just wad he chose to do. and while it is pples decision to slam the word ' fault' on him, it does take considerable thinking y he deserve it at all. the blame. the concern. for if he is blessed wif it, then its up to him to decide its fate. if he didnt even deserved it in the 1st place, then surely he doenst desrve to hold onto it.
hope this entry sets u thinking. or betta clear the doubts u have. tata
